Saturday, October 31, 2009

What do you think a cup of tea to ensure your success? And method of preparation for free!

Imagine that you have a cup of tea with sugar added to it, but sugar does not moved, you will find the taste of the sweetness of sugar ? Definitely not

Has given careful consideration in the cup for a minute and taste of tea
Have you changed something? I think not

Notes that tea began cool and cool and you are not taste it yet?

So last attempt Put your hands on your head Lauder about a cup of tea and pray god to become the tea Lauder .

So all of this madness may be absurd
Will not become sweet tea, but it will be cold drink .

The life is like a cup of tea, capabilities that God has endowed you within yourself is the sugar that was not moved by yourself, you'll taste sweetness if you move it and work hard to make your life better.

You will taste the sweetness of your work, your business and your creativity

Do your best to modify your mood.

The magic leader !!

What are the unique qualities owned by the leader and distinguish him from others and make him popular for his followers, whether was political or military leader, religious or in the field of work where we are.

For example, how is the executive director develop his impact and his methods to all work in his organization is done? And how all the staff target a single goal? Is there a mystery in the style of his speaking to others or is he a shrewd clever in his actions or is he an exciting character? Perhaps these qualities together is to create a leader who I am talking .

Leader existence is very important to push followers towards the goal which he wants and looks forward to its completion. That a true understanding of the qualities required for this magic leader make him and no doubt executive character able to lead his followers.

Here, we have to say that these qualities are not born with him, but he create it himself, the most important of these attributes:

First: The method of his behavior that include signals sent by the leader to the others without speaking to them. If he look directly at their eyes or to any other place or if you stop or remained seated or if he smiled or not smiling or shook hands with his followers warmly or not, all these things help in the formation of a look his followers to him and affect their leadership.

Second: the ability to convince others, it is necessary here to say that all ideas be of no value if it is not to convince people of it was placed it to work. Leaders can simplify complex ideas and delivered it to their followers so easily to become comprehensible to the simplest members of the organization.

Third: the ability to speak effectively, the leader may have various ideas and many, but he can arrange these ideas and present it to who listen to him easily.

Fourth: the ability to listen, despite the importance of talking but good listening sends a clear message with respect to the speaker.

Fifth: the way of use the space and time, despite the neglect of this important element in most of the time but that the use of space and time as well as to guide people is a great importance to delivery the ideas and the strengthening of relations between the leader and subordinates.

Sixth: the ability to accommodate others, the ability to understand others and his identities and aspirations enabling the leader to deal easily with them and guiding them towards the goals they wish to access.
The managers who can develop their ability as the points mentioned above can, without a doubt be successful in most aspects of their lives.

why you do not achieve your goals? (Part 2)

4. They do not write their goals based on values and principles.
If I asked a lot of people about their goals, they may say I want money, or a car, And many people start trying to achieve their goals and then after a period of stand unable to complete their goals, did not you know? Because they did not put their goals based on values and principles!
For an example, if we asked people what your goal? Might say: buy a car; If we asked him why you want to buy it?
The answer: In order to lead me to the place I want, if we say to him: taxis can take you, why not take them around? The answer: I want the convenience and freedom to travel, here he want to buy the car for has two the values, the convenience and freedom.
if we know what our values and we set our goals upon which it will be like a torch to light the way for us, plus it will set the energy and alertness desires to reach our goals.

5. Because they put unrealistic goals (big and very short time, or many and short time).
This is unfortunately what many people do, they may put the long-term objectives, and want to achieve them in a short time, and they want many things and want to achieving in a short time, and this is what we can not achieve.

6. they put targets to satisfy the others parents and friends.
Here is a great disaster, many of them living the life of others and not their lives!!! Did you know that? Because they want to achieve other goals or demands of them, and may not comply with these demands with their own values and principles, then in person will live the life does not have any fun! If we assume that he has achieved achievement will make him feel happy.

7. Because they often focus on the obstacles and difficulties, rather than focusing on their goals.
Such a view is pessimistic; who sees darkness instead of light! In the view of problems rather than opportunities! In the view points of weakness rather than strengths! And so forth ... it is this habit will not be to have the strength and energy to achieve its objectives.

8. Procrastination
Some people are exercising of procrastination, even those become habit! And if he wants to lead them step of achieving the goal, it may not be the inadequacy of time, or feeling tired, or lack of completeness of the information he has and so forth ...
I shall give an example which shows us, imagine with me that the goal is small plant I want to make it grow to bear fruit and then pick the fruit, I suppose whenever I want to Irrigate it I claim that i'm busy, and the weather is hot now, and i'll Irrigate it as soon as the sun light at the night, and then start my complaints to appear on the scene the night, was forced to postpone irrigation for tomorrow, and so on Thus, I defer irrigation from time to time, what will happen? Of course, you agree with me that the plant will die, and this is what will happen to the objectives, it will die within ourselves, and we will not have the capacity to achieve them.

Friday, October 30, 2009

why you do not achieve your goals? (Part 1)

Why not achieved our goals?, And why most people do not achieve their goals in general? The answer here may lie in the following points:
  1. Because they do not know how to put the goals of their lives.
    Here is the problem that a lot of people do not bother to know how to set goals or write, let alone how to achieve them!

  2. Because they believe that others control their lives.
    Many people thought that it did not have any effect on his life! And things that get in his life were a reality by the influence of others, and the worse the view that all or most of what is He got beaten by luck; and not an inevitable outcome would have thought of it and work accordingly.

  3. Because they put goals that is not clear (money, happiness, comfort ...).
    This will Weakens our ability to achieve our objectives; gel goals is like the rays of the sun despite the energy and high temperature; but the heat dispersed, so it will not burn the paper if we put in front of the sun, the maximum the sun is doing to transform the color to yellow.
    But what happens if we maximized between the paper and the sun? Of course, you agree with me that the magnifier will burn or ignite the paper!
    What do you think about the power of focus; this in itself is what will happen if you wrote your goals specific, the focus will lead you to achive your goals very quickly.

i'll continue in the next post

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Are you creative ?

Consider these questions .......

  • Are you influenced by external influences , such as strobe lights, noise, moods of others?
  • Do you have the imagination rarely understood by others?
  • Do you feel you are going in a course different from the one that goes to others?
  • Is someone tells you that you are "very sensitive or you are" very emotional "?
  • Is someone tell you that you "thinking very," or you are "perfect"?

  • Do you feel that you have alot of concerns, or you move from one project to another?

  • Do you often feel anxious or confused?

  • Do you feel the uniqueness and isolation or lack of consent about most relationships?

  • Do you feel that you do not complete what you can accomplish both at the level of your personal or professional?

If your answers to any of the previous questions was yes, you who have the creative capabilities that do not realize by others.

I think that the vast majority of our readers will find themselves in this category, Take the first step towards self-development and help yourself out of negative thinking.

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Put your finger in your ears

At one time there was a group of tiny frogs ..
Who were participating in the competition ..
The goal was to get to the top of a high tower ..

Group of fans gathered to see the race and encourage the competitors.

The race started ..
really, none of the spectators believed that the tiny frogs can make up ground and reach the top of the tower. The launch of the public statements such as: (Oh, it is very difficult .. they can not never reach the top) Or (Do not have a chance .. the tower is very high)

some tiny frogs began to fall, except those who were climbing rapidly to higher and higher, but the public continued to scream: (Very hard!!! ... No one can up to the top of the tower)
A larger number of tiny frogs began to tire and give up then down .. But one of them continued to climb higher and higher ..

In the end, all the frogs gave up .. Except one frog who reached the summit ..
Of course, all participants want to know how he achieve what nobody else has!!!
One of them asked the winner: What is the secret that make you win? The truth is ..

The winner was deaf to hear

a Lesson learned: Do not listen to negative people and desperate.
They Will keep you away from your dreams and wishes that favorite carry in your heart Always be careful of the power of words.

All what you hear and read will intervene in your actions.
Therefore: Always be positive. Put your finger in your ears not to hear to the person who tells you that you can not accomplish your dreams.

You can always be successful.

The best ways to deal with Negative People

1. Imagine a powerful force field around yourself that “Zaps” negative external thoughts like a bug zapper

2. For people who you have to share an office with or who are on a team with you, but who you have no managerial responsibility, be very careful. In a meeting where new ideas are being offered, the “devils advocate” types will kill innovation if they are allowed in too soon. However, they can envision what can go wrong with something, so later on they can be an asset in de-bugging an idea or process.

3. Chant inside your own mind: “Why does it work out better than I can possibly imagine.” also put it in 2nd and 3rd person: “Why does it work out better than you can possibly imagine?” and “Why Does it work out better than they can possibly imagine?”

4. Imagine yourself big and huge and powerful like the “Jolly Green Giant” way up above the little “chirps” of negative voices down below you. It also helps to imagine the negative people to be like whiny little children. You don’t hold it against kids that they can get whiny. But you also don’t tolerate it.

5. Ultimately, we always have a choice. If you are feeling stuck in a molasses like goo of negativity at work or at home you may have to leave. I know that may sound extreme but it may be necessary to protect yourself or give yourself some time to get stronger.

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

What is NLP?

The term NLP stands for Neuro Linguistic Programming, It is a powerful vehicle for personal change being used by thousands of people around the world, NLP is the practice of understanding how people organise their thinking, feeling, language and behaviour to produce the results they do.

Additional applications of NLP include sports, entertainment, relationships and health .

NLP is not only about finding new ways of attaining your goals and objectives, but also removing any blocks you may have that stop you from achieving them.

Who is it for?
NLP is for anyone who wants to explore getting better results at work or in their personal lives.